Re: Dilemma
in reply to a message by LoriAnn
Elliot is totally masculine, and no matter how many people name their little girls the male name Elliot, it'll still be a masculine name - just somewhat common on girls. That will never make it seem feminine, to me.
So I don't think you have to worry about using a particularly butch middle name with it; just one that is obviously masculine which isn't used on females...
I don't agree with you about names beginning with vowels seeming more feminine. I do think that it's possible, though, that having all short vowels and no long vowels might make a name seem "lighter" .. maybe that is what seems feminine to you?
Anyway, I think Elliot James is the most masculine looking combo on your list.. All of the other middle names have a similar gentleness about them - not making them less masculine, nor more feminine, but they have a gentler quality as opposed to sounding butch. Nicholas is pretty darn masculine too, but James is more so. I think I get these impressions from the length of the vowels (A in James, O in Nicholas).
Maybe try to think of male names you like that have a long vowel, stressed.
Examples:
Owen
Julian
Ivan
Michael
Darius
Rudolf
Silas
Ethan
Aidan
Keith
Lucas
- chazda
So I don't think you have to worry about using a particularly butch middle name with it; just one that is obviously masculine which isn't used on females...
I don't agree with you about names beginning with vowels seeming more feminine. I do think that it's possible, though, that having all short vowels and no long vowels might make a name seem "lighter" .. maybe that is what seems feminine to you?
Anyway, I think Elliot James is the most masculine looking combo on your list.. All of the other middle names have a similar gentleness about them - not making them less masculine, nor more feminine, but they have a gentler quality as opposed to sounding butch. Nicholas is pretty darn masculine too, but James is more so. I think I get these impressions from the length of the vowels (A in James, O in Nicholas).
Maybe try to think of male names you like that have a long vowel, stressed.
Examples:
Owen
Julian
Ivan
Michael
Darius
Rudolf
Silas
Ethan
Aidan
Keith
Lucas
- chazda
This message was edited 1/26/2005, 11:01 PM