I can understand the nitpicking thing but would be more inclined to feel that if say, some couple chose
Margaret "
Daisy" for no particular reason and absolutely NEVER called her
Margaret - then I'd probably think "what are you trying to prove?" But if it was chosen to honor an aunt
Margaret, but they wanted her to have her "own" name (particularly if aunt
Margaret is still living) and liked
Daisy anyway, I'd think it was a nice gesture. I'd like
Margaret "
Pearl" just as well in this situation
This message was edited 3/16/2013, 3:34 PM