I had a colleague once who celebrated his 30th birthday while we worked together. He was a
Jonathan, and when he started working he asked us all to call him
Jonty, but nobody could bring themselves to do it. He was tall and well built, and
Jonty seemed totally unsuitable for any adult and especially one who looked like him. His behaviour could be immature - he had a psychiatric condition that we only became aware of later - but if anything that made the nn worse. I would rate
Jonty 1/10; but I'd only rate
Jonathan about 3/10.
Thinking, now:
Jonty would have been a much more suitable name for an eternal child than
Peter, but
Peter Pan works so well that
Jonty - if it even existed in JM
Barrie's day - wouldn't have stood a chance.