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Help[Games] Re: Darkest Congrats Round Three
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Posting Name: X Mar (8)
Surname: Romanov
SO: Ruslan (30) (constuction worker / bar tender)
SO: Noa Valentina (37) (was a school teacher, now is a stay at home mom)
DD: Isadora Jona "Isa" (10)
DS/DS/DD: Maximilian Levi "Max" / Mordecai Rhys "Cai" / Winter Bronwen "Winnie" (8)
DS: Gabriel Quinton "Gabe" (died at 5 months)
DS: Connor Austin "Con" (5)
DS: James Atticus "Jay" (2)
DS: Romeo Ivan "Rome" (1) (illegitimate - Ruslan)
DS: Sebastian Jude "Seb" (0)
When Con was 2 years old I started talking to Ruslan again about going back to work. He reacted like before. He said that I simply couldn't go back to work, because our kids needed their mother at home. He has taken on a second job as a bar tender in the weekends, so he has no time to look after the kids and we had enough money to get by. I really miss teaching, and when I told him that he said I could homeschool our kids if I wanted to teach so badly. I was so angry at him for not understanding me. I told him it wasn't the same and that I regretted ever having children together with him. He told that that was my problem and walked away.
I went to a friends house leaving the kids with him. I stayed there for 2 nights without letting Ruslan or the kids know where I was. Two days later he stood on the doorstep there and when my friend opened he told him he had heard I was there and insisted on talking to me. In the end I agreed to talk to him and we ended up having a huge argument in my friend's house. I did end up going home with Ruslan. When we were in our bed that night we made up.
Nine months after that night Jay was born. I wasn't too happy with his arrival, because I knew that this meant that my dream of goign back to teaching was further away than ever.
A year later I found a baby wrapped up in a blanket on our doorstep. A note said that it was Ruslan's baby. When I confronted Ruslan with the baby he said that he couldn't be his. I first believed him, but I insisted he'd take a paternity test anyway. The result showed that Ruslan was the father. When I asked him who the baby's mother was he told me that he wasn't sure, there were 2 possibilities, but he couldn't remember the name of either woman.
I was devastated about this. Not only had he cheated on me more than once, but he also had had unprotected sex with someone else. He registered the baby, who was only a couple of days old according to the doctor, under the name Romeo Ivan. He told me the baby would come to live with us, and I should just treat it as one of our own. He said that cheating on me was his fault, not the baby's fault. I agreed with that, but I really couldn't stand the sight of Rome, living proof of my husband's unfaithfulness.
We put Rome in with Jay in the nursery. One night not long after Rome's arrival we argued again. We shouted at each other for at least an hour and I told him at some point that if he needed to have more children he should have them with me and not with random women he had met; that I as his girlfriend had sole right of sleeping with him. He was so angry at that point that he told me that he agreed with that, and that he'd arrange another child with me. He pushed me on to our bed and had sex with me. I was so shocked about the situation, his roughness, and I was so scared as well, that I didn't make any effort at that time to stop him. I'm not sure if he would have if I had asked him to, and part of me didn't want to find out by trying to say "stop".
Later I was thinking if he in fact had raped me or not. I never tried to stop him, but I hadn't agreed to it either. Unfortunately I did end up being pregnant. I wasn't sure what to do. I really didn't feel like having another one of his children. I couldn't bear the thought of aborting or abandoning my own child either. I was thinking of leaving Ruslan, but I figured there was no way I could be a single mom of 6 with one other on the way. I told Ruslan I was pregnant and we talked about what to do. We kept the baby, but decided to move to another house that had a bit more space. All our conversations were of practical nature; we never spoke of how we felt about things and I was afraid to bring up anything that might anger him.
Number 1-10: 6
Do you want more children from the original family?: We've decided to take measures to prevent another pregnancy, but accidents can happen...
Surname: Romanov
SO: Ruslan (30) (constuction worker / bar tender)
SO: Noa Valentina (37) (was a school teacher, now is a stay at home mom)
DD: Isadora Jona "Isa" (10)
DS/DS/DD: Maximilian Levi "Max" / Mordecai Rhys "Cai" / Winter Bronwen "Winnie" (8)
DS: Gabriel Quinton "Gabe" (died at 5 months)
DS: Connor Austin "Con" (5)
DS: James Atticus "Jay" (2)
DS: Romeo Ivan "Rome" (1) (illegitimate - Ruslan)
DS: Sebastian Jude "Seb" (0)
When Con was 2 years old I started talking to Ruslan again about going back to work. He reacted like before. He said that I simply couldn't go back to work, because our kids needed their mother at home. He has taken on a second job as a bar tender in the weekends, so he has no time to look after the kids and we had enough money to get by. I really miss teaching, and when I told him that he said I could homeschool our kids if I wanted to teach so badly. I was so angry at him for not understanding me. I told him it wasn't the same and that I regretted ever having children together with him. He told that that was my problem and walked away.
I went to a friends house leaving the kids with him. I stayed there for 2 nights without letting Ruslan or the kids know where I was. Two days later he stood on the doorstep there and when my friend opened he told him he had heard I was there and insisted on talking to me. In the end I agreed to talk to him and we ended up having a huge argument in my friend's house. I did end up going home with Ruslan. When we were in our bed that night we made up.
Nine months after that night Jay was born. I wasn't too happy with his arrival, because I knew that this meant that my dream of goign back to teaching was further away than ever.
A year later I found a baby wrapped up in a blanket on our doorstep. A note said that it was Ruslan's baby. When I confronted Ruslan with the baby he said that he couldn't be his. I first believed him, but I insisted he'd take a paternity test anyway. The result showed that Ruslan was the father. When I asked him who the baby's mother was he told me that he wasn't sure, there were 2 possibilities, but he couldn't remember the name of either woman.
I was devastated about this. Not only had he cheated on me more than once, but he also had had unprotected sex with someone else. He registered the baby, who was only a couple of days old according to the doctor, under the name Romeo Ivan. He told me the baby would come to live with us, and I should just treat it as one of our own. He said that cheating on me was his fault, not the baby's fault. I agreed with that, but I really couldn't stand the sight of Rome, living proof of my husband's unfaithfulness.
We put Rome in with Jay in the nursery. One night not long after Rome's arrival we argued again. We shouted at each other for at least an hour and I told him at some point that if he needed to have more children he should have them with me and not with random women he had met; that I as his girlfriend had sole right of sleeping with him. He was so angry at that point that he told me that he agreed with that, and that he'd arrange another child with me. He pushed me on to our bed and had sex with me. I was so shocked about the situation, his roughness, and I was so scared as well, that I didn't make any effort at that time to stop him. I'm not sure if he would have if I had asked him to, and part of me didn't want to find out by trying to say "stop".
Later I was thinking if he in fact had raped me or not. I never tried to stop him, but I hadn't agreed to it either. Unfortunately I did end up being pregnant. I wasn't sure what to do. I really didn't feel like having another one of his children. I couldn't bear the thought of aborting or abandoning my own child either. I was thinking of leaving Ruslan, but I figured there was no way I could be a single mom of 6 with one other on the way. I told Ruslan I was pregnant and we talked about what to do. We kept the baby, but decided to move to another house that had a bit more space. All our conversations were of practical nature; we never spoke of how we felt about things and I was afraid to bring up anything that might anger him.
Number 1-10: 6
Do you want more children from the original family?: We've decided to take measures to prevent another pregnancy, but accidents can happen...
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