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Oh now I trully believe there are weirdo's out there!
I went out with this guy last night. We went out to eat and he was all into my pregnancy. Talking about how I should get married again and basicall saying it should be him, talking about how pregnancy was such a miricale. All he wanted to do was touch me and touch my belly. I kept asking him to stop touching me but he wouldnt! He even tried kissing my belly! When we left he followed me to my apartment. I was so afraid that he would find out which apartment was mine! I called up a good guy friend but he was to far to come over! But he stayed on the phone with me for awhile! Then he called me later that night to check on me! He said he would try to come over tonight to make sure the weird guy doesnt show up! I dont think I will date again for awhile.... I just thought i would go out and try to get my mind of Ryan but in all actuality even though he is being a jerk right now, I trully love Ryan and dont think I will be over him for awhile! We have children together and had a good 5 1/2 years together(that is including dateing)! I know this has nothing to do with names but I needed to share it with you guys since you have been there for me!
Gia
I went out with this guy last night. We went out to eat and he was all into my pregnancy. Talking about how I should get married again and basicall saying it should be him, talking about how pregnancy was such a miricale. All he wanted to do was touch me and touch my belly. I kept asking him to stop touching me but he wouldnt! He even tried kissing my belly! When we left he followed me to my apartment. I was so afraid that he would find out which apartment was mine! I called up a good guy friend but he was to far to come over! But he stayed on the phone with me for awhile! Then he called me later that night to check on me! He said he would try to come over tonight to make sure the weird guy doesnt show up! I dont think I will date again for awhile.... I just thought i would go out and try to get my mind of Ryan but in all actuality even though he is being a jerk right now, I trully love Ryan and dont think I will be over him for awhile! We have children together and had a good 5 1/2 years together(that is including dateing)! I know this has nothing to do with names but I needed to share it with you guys since you have been there for me!
Gia
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"Alien father returns to Earth to take child back to home planet"
Incase the weird guy ever shows up again, you could try to scare him by going on about how the baby's father, (insert alien space name), has been trying to contact you and how he wants to take the baby back to (insert planet). Then, in the middle of the conversation, pretend to "hear" the "alien father" calling you. If that doesn't scare him away-and it might not from the sound of him- tell him bluntly you just don't like him. Or maybe you should try that first?
Incase the weird guy ever shows up again, you could try to scare him by going on about how the baby's father, (insert alien space name), has been trying to contact you and how he wants to take the baby back to (insert planet). Then, in the middle of the conversation, pretend to "hear" the "alien father" calling you. If that doesn't scare him away-and it might not from the sound of him- tell him bluntly you just don't like him. Or maybe you should try that first?
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Just scream at the guy: "OH MY GAWD! I'M ABOUT TO SPAWN! RIGHT NOW! QUICK -- OPEN YOUR MOUTH TO RECEIVE MY PROJECTILE FETUS!"
:)
:)
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Oh!
Never mind then. Sorry. I misunderstood.
Never mind then. Sorry. I misunderstood.
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I wasnt going to actually date but I thought it would be nice to just go out! I even told the guy straight out that I wasnt going to get involved with someone.....
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My unsolicited advice...
...don't date while you're pregnant and in the middle of a divorce. I can't think of a worse time to get involved with someone. Stay focused on your children...the ones that are already born and the one waiting to be born. They need your undivided attention during what is for them as well as for you, a complete devastation of the lives they knew.
Dating requires superhuman energy and strength and is completely time consuming. Doesn't sound like you have any of those things left over at the end of the day.
...don't date while you're pregnant and in the middle of a divorce. I can't think of a worse time to get involved with someone. Stay focused on your children...the ones that are already born and the one waiting to be born. They need your undivided attention during what is for them as well as for you, a complete devastation of the lives they knew.
Dating requires superhuman energy and strength and is completely time consuming. Doesn't sound like you have any of those things left over at the end of the day.
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Gross. Be careful. Weirdos are everywhere nowadays. When I was expecting I simply would tell people as they were reaching toward me, "You are invading my personal space, shall I invade your space with my knee?" But then I am a bit of a bitch. I don't know you but have been in your exact shoes before. Get some counselling. I could not afford it so I found a minister I trusted but wherever you turn I encourage you to get some couselling. Good luck.
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Yeah a nice night out turned into a nightmare!
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That guy was a FREAK! You stay away from freaks like that, who want to touch yer belleh!
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I personally see great beauty in a pregnant woman, and -- if allowed -- give pregnant women a Pillsbury touch :)
However that fellow's behavior certainly smacks of paraphilia. I agree with Weslyn's advice, try and get by with a little help from your (aknowledged) friends and take it easy 'till the dust settles...
And go for a female therapist if you wish, lest you enter Woody-Allen-land :P
However that fellow's behavior certainly smacks of paraphilia. I agree with Weslyn's advice, try and get by with a little help from your (aknowledged) friends and take it easy 'till the dust settles...
And go for a female therapist if you wish, lest you enter Woody-Allen-land :P
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Are you in therapy?
I started therapy because I'm also attracted to disfunctional men. I'm not fixed yet! LOL But I'm getting there.
I started therapy because I'm also attracted to disfunctional men. I'm not fixed yet! LOL But I'm getting there.
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Praise Zeus for implanting this bug/design flaw in bright and charming women. Has given folks like me and Daividh a fighting chance.
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LOL! Charming.
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I dunno whatcher praisin' him for, coz you and Daividh ain't freaks...
...you're both just a little bit idiosyncratic, is all. :)
-- Nanaea
...you're both just a little bit idiosyncratic, is all. :)
-- Nanaea
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Actually, "idiosyncratic" is the nicest thing I've been called all week. "Freak" would be the second nicest. Sucko week...
but it beats being called "butthole cranky"!! : )
but it beats being called "butthole cranky"!! : )
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Oh, Krusty -- in your case, you KNOW that "butthole cranky" is just a term o' affection. :)
Hey, *I* got tagged with the title of "Major Know-It-All Bitch" last night! Woo-hoo! :)
-- Nanaea
Hey, *I* got tagged with the title of "Major Know-It-All Bitch" last night! Woo-hoo! :)
-- Nanaea
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Sucko week...
Aw, Davidh,
I hope your week gets better. Is anybody not having a sucko week? If so, let's beat them up. :)
Andrea
Aw, Davidh,
I hope your week gets better. Is anybody not having a sucko week? If so, let's beat them up. :)
Andrea
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hee hee!
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Idiosyncratic : "scary 'n' idiotic"
:P
:P
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Speed Chess
Hi Gia ,
I am sorry to hear you ended up scared after what was supposed to be something nice. As you say you are not sure you will be over Ryan for awhile, which is very understandable. There are also things in life, which we never get over, but rather learn to live with.
I am not sure if Ryan leaving you is one such thing. That I hope not.
But perhaps you moved too fast going out with another man while Ryan is still on the loose in your heart, so to speak.
With a child to take care of and being pregnant and feeling sadness over your man, through more than five years, leaving you I understand very well that you at times need to get a little away from it all.
But perhaps you should spent such time away from it all together with people you already know, who do not want something from you all the time and who take a yes for a yes and a no for a no.
At least until your heart is in a more serene state.
Sincerely,
Selwyn
Hi Gia ,
I am sorry to hear you ended up scared after what was supposed to be something nice. As you say you are not sure you will be over Ryan for awhile, which is very understandable. There are also things in life, which we never get over, but rather learn to live with.
I am not sure if Ryan leaving you is one such thing. That I hope not.
But perhaps you moved too fast going out with another man while Ryan is still on the loose in your heart, so to speak.
With a child to take care of and being pregnant and feeling sadness over your man, through more than five years, leaving you I understand very well that you at times need to get a little away from it all.
But perhaps you should spent such time away from it all together with people you already know, who do not want something from you all the time and who take a yes for a yes and a no for a no.
At least until your heart is in a more serene state.
Sincerely,
Selwyn
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Gia
Picture my right hand tangled in your hair as my open left hand aquaints itself with your mouth (after I torture the schwantz using #2 fishhooks and Betadine).
Number 1: IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT that schwantz invaded your space. If I'm reading this correctly, you didn't invite him to do what he did in the first place and you reitterated that you wanted him to leave you alone. He was almost, but not quite, guilty of sexual assault.
Number 2: Legally, the moment you said "No" to him, he was guilty of assault. You could've called the police. I think you should contact your local Women's Crisis Line and tell someone who has the resources at his/her fingertips about what happened and ask what you could/should do. They even have the telephone numbers of other places you can go to for long-term assistance.
I, too, am a survivor of criminal assaults (luckily, none of the attempteds were successful, but I'm still a bit leary of physically going around with members of the male gender except in professional situations or in groups of eight or more).
Now, take care of both yourself and your little ones and keep in mind that, the next time you see the schwantz, get away from him by joining a group of people or by turning around. Better yet, give him the proverbial finger and take control of the whole situation, even if it may make you feel that you're creating an unwarranted scene.
Phyllis (aka Sidhe Uaine or Gaia Euphoria)
Picture my right hand tangled in your hair as my open left hand aquaints itself with your mouth (after I torture the schwantz using #2 fishhooks and Betadine).
Number 1: IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT that schwantz invaded your space. If I'm reading this correctly, you didn't invite him to do what he did in the first place and you reitterated that you wanted him to leave you alone. He was almost, but not quite, guilty of sexual assault.
Number 2: Legally, the moment you said "No" to him, he was guilty of assault. You could've called the police. I think you should contact your local Women's Crisis Line and tell someone who has the resources at his/her fingertips about what happened and ask what you could/should do. They even have the telephone numbers of other places you can go to for long-term assistance.
I, too, am a survivor of criminal assaults (luckily, none of the attempteds were successful, but I'm still a bit leary of physically going around with members of the male gender except in professional situations or in groups of eight or more).
Now, take care of both yourself and your little ones and keep in mind that, the next time you see the schwantz, get away from him by joining a group of people or by turning around. Better yet, give him the proverbial finger and take control of the whole situation, even if it may make you feel that you're creating an unwarranted scene.
Phyllis (aka Sidhe Uaine or Gaia Euphoria)
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Addendum
Gia
If you ever have any more trouble from that schwantz, cause a scene. Scream out a name (Nanaea springs to mind, or Selwyn , or Pavlos . Any but the one he answers to).
And remember, you caused him to attack you just as much as our favorite Dane masterminded the attack on the WTC, the Pentagon & southwestern PA. (My apologies to Selwyn for taking his name in vain).
Phyllis (aka Sidhe Uaine or Gaia Euphoria)
Gia
If you ever have any more trouble from that schwantz, cause a scene. Scream out a name (Nanaea springs to mind, or Selwyn , or Pavlos . Any but the one he answers to).
And remember, you caused him to attack you just as much as our favorite Dane masterminded the attack on the WTC, the Pentagon & southwestern PA. (My apologies to Selwyn for taking his name in vain).
Phyllis (aka Sidhe Uaine or Gaia Euphoria)
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Thanks Selwyn , I told him right away I wasnt going to get involved with a guy right now! I just wanted out! But I guess it was my own fault, but I didnt expect him to be so umm.... yeah I wont say what I really want to! And about Ryan leaving me I dont think I will forgive him, but I will move on. Just not right now! Well my heart wont move on... I will go on!
Gia
Gia
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