What do people usually call you when they don’t remember your name?
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My name is Patricia. I have gotten Rebecca, Bridget, and Felicia.
I don't remember childhood that clearly, but I think once older lady called me "Inga".
Maybe it was because she overheard nickname "Ina" (Inez) and added G to it.
Also "Agnes" at doctors, but that's from not looking at my documents. Today I don't have that kind of situations, only mistyping by changing Z to S.
Maybe it was because she overheard nickname "Ina" (Inez) and added G to it.
Also "Agnes" at doctors, but that's from not looking at my documents. Today I don't have that kind of situations, only mistyping by changing Z to S.
Okay so nobody has mis-named me with two exceptions which isn't really the same:
At a cafe once, I had "Shell" written on my cup. I am Charlotte. It has puzzled me how they didn't hear two-syllables and not one
My boyfriend has two older brothers, both of them married to a Sarah. His dad sometimes mistakenly calls me Sarah, but I think that's less to do with me, and more to do with my boyfriend being mistaken for one of his brothers lmao
At a cafe once, I had "Shell" written on my cup. I am Charlotte. It has puzzled me how they didn't hear two-syllables and not one
My boyfriend has two older brothers, both of them married to a Sarah. His dad sometimes mistakenly calls me Sarah, but I think that's less to do with me, and more to do with my boyfriend being mistaken for one of his brothers lmao
I can't remember any such attempts. What has puzzled me for decades is that for a couple of years, in my home town, total strangers would come up to me in the street and greet me confidently as Margaret. My cousin Margaret was about 8 years older than me and a good deal taller, with a very different body shape. We had brown hair and green eyes in common, but nothng else. And I was never quick enough to ask them: tended to just stare blankly until they went away!
Given name is Melissa. For me it's Michelle, always.
Was bad enough before I started working with someone named Michelle, now it's a daily occurrence
Was bad enough before I started working with someone named Michelle, now it's a daily occurrence
I don't think that's happened to me...
People usually just pronounce it wrong or mishear it the first time (Talia instead of Callia), not misremember it.
People usually just pronounce it wrong or mishear it the first time (Talia instead of Callia), not misremember it.
Although it was much more prevalent when I was younger, I get called Grace. I have a sister with that name which I'm sure was partially why. But even people who didn't know me or my sister would call me Grace? I don't really understand that, but I guess I look like a Grace? I've noticed that it has happened to an extreme lesser degree in the past few years, though. The only other name I can remember being called is Mary which was pretty recent. Neither Grace nor Mary sound anything like Hope, but I can understand that they're all in a similar genre of name.
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Huh, Catherine and Sarah seem pretty different other than being common names. With Chloe, I can at least see the connection because they're both common/popular yet Ch is uncommon enough someone might group them together subconsciously.
I've gotten: Virginia, Veronica, Cori, Lori, Vanessa, Valerie...longish V names vaguely popular in the US in 1989 plus names that rhyme with Tori...
Tony and Troy but those were more people misreading than misremembering or mishearing.
My name's Victoria.
I've gotten: Virginia, Veronica, Cori, Lori, Vanessa, Valerie...longish V names vaguely popular in the US in 1989 plus names that rhyme with Tori...
Tony and Troy but those were more people misreading than misremembering or mishearing.
My name's Victoria.
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That's weird; I would expect most people to call you Kelsey if they couldn't remember your real name.
My actual name is Starla. I've been mistaken mostly for Darla ("This is Starla" on the phone sounds very much like "This is Darla) or occasionally Carla.
My actual name is Starla. I've been mistaken mostly for Darla ("This is Starla" on the phone sounds very much like "This is Darla) or occasionally Carla.
Anna.
English speakers call me Anna if they forget my name or if they think it's too long.
Ukrainian and Russian speakers call me Anna because they assume it's my full name. I go by Anya which tends to be short for Anna. My name is Anastasiya.
I've also been called Stacy and somehow Oleksandra.
English speakers call me Anna if they forget my name or if they think it's too long.
Ukrainian and Russian speakers call me Anna because they assume it's my full name. I go by Anya which tends to be short for Anna. My name is Anastasiya.
I've also been called Stacy and somehow Oleksandra.
A couple of my teachers who'd taught my older sister would just call me my last name because otherwise they'd forget and call me by my sister's name. We do have somewhat similar first names, though - her name is the one even strangers use most often when they forget mine.
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