Re: If you were the opposite gender, what name would you have?
I asked my parents once, and they looked embarrassed and explained that they'd spent my mother's entire pregnancy arguing about a female name; they really wanted a daughter, and never got around to hedging their bets and picking a male name. Since both their fathers were named Thomas, I rather think that's what I'd have been. I could comfortably see myself as a Tom. No idea about a middle name, though.