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Taboo Names
Inspired by Janan's post about brand names, what are your favorite names that are considered taboo, or just in poor taste, to give to a child for one reason or another?For example, I've always liked the look and sound of Lucifer despite it's connotations, and recently Isis has become unusable.
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I grew up on stories of my great-grandfather. He was a crazy adrenaline junkie who did things like fly biplanes through barns for fun, ran a business and supported his family throughout the Depression, joined the Navy during WW2 despite being 43 years old with sciatica, and was all around just awesome. I'd love to name one of my kids after him.
Unfortunately his name was Adolph. So that's that.
Also I really like Deliverance but that stupid movie ruined it.

This message was edited 4/5/2019, 1:14 PM

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Such a shame about Isis, let's just call them Daesh so we can use it again! I have a friend who really likes Adolf (reminds her of dolphins haha).
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The only GPS of mine I can think of that I'd call taboo/insulting are Judas and Shylock.
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I always liked Lolita as a name for a pet maybe but even then I’d be uncomfortable using it.Loki’s one I wouldn’t give to a child, but would to a pet.
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Dolores is one of those names that I don't like enough that I'd use it all the time but I think it looks really pretty and is a name I'd like to see more of - so I'd need a good nickname for it. Lola would work with less connotations, but Lolita's so lovely, it's a shame to pass up on it.
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Jezebel and Athaliah, Isis is also nice.
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Adolph/Adolf, Lucifer, Mao, and Jezebel are what first come to mind when I think of taboo names, but they are so attached to a particular person or set traits that I have difficulty thinking of them without the associations.

Damian – I really like this name, but some people associated it with the villain in a post-apocalyptic film. I don’t think the name is unusable, but I might hesitate to use it while so many people remember the film.
Hannibal – I like this one too, but Hannibal Lector has irreparably ruined it.
Joffrey – Until Game of Thrones dies down, I wouldn’t recommend using this. I prefer the Geoffrey spelling anyway.
Judas – There were multiple people with this name, but it is kind of synonymous with traitor. It’s like the male version of
On a side note, I’ve heard that certain names are considered questionable in Islam. In Saudi Arabia, there is a list of names banned that include Maya, Alice, Elaine, Lauren, Malika, Amir, Rama, Sitav, and Jibreel (angel Gabriel). I guess these names are viewed as not promoting Muslim values. Since I do not follow Islam, none of these names bother me, but if I lived in a predominately Muslim country, I might look into it more.

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I really like Cain, but, because of what Cain in the Bible did, using this name is pretty much a no-no where I live.
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I love Allegra but it is too associated with the allergy medication. Even more associated since drugs are my profession.

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Adolfo and Benito come to mind.
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Jezebel, Cherry.
Adolf would be a cool name too, maybe not quite my style - it's hard to think about what it'd be like without the association.
I used to like Lucifer as a gp, but I've soured on it.
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Jezebel is such a shame. Lots of potential for nice nicknames too.I totally get what you mean about Adolf.What's the issue with Cherry? I find it a little too cutesy (I hesitate to say trashy because it sounds pretentious and middle-class of me, but that's what comes to mind) but I don't get the association. I'm probably just being silly.
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Hi mirfalk !!Has Cherry an unfortunate connotation? Why?I know that's popular despite not trendy.
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Yeah, like Bitey said, it has a sexualized connotation that basically nobody overlooks. There was a popular band some years ago named "Cherry Poppin' Daddies" (which is a pretty shocking band name now that I think about it, but it was humorous). The slang about hymens is now very dated and sounds pretty lame/quaint, but people use "pop the cherry" metaphorically, in a facetious way, to refer to doing things for the first time. Cherry is also a term to describe the condition of an exceedingly well-cared-for vintage sports car. I don't think Cherry is as totally unusable as Adolf seems - it'd sound name-ish, because Sherry is so common - but a lot of people would raise an eyebrow at it, and that'd put me off using it.

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In the US it's a slang word for hymen ("popping your cherry" = losing your virginity)
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I really like Adolph and Adolphine...
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Me too.The meanings are wonderful. Endless rage at that man.
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JemimaI live in the US, so I wouldn't use it, but I really like the name.
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Hi Mistawis !!I don't understand...Why does Jemima be unusable? It means "dove" right? I miss the negative link.I can't see it in the same bunch of Isis, Lucifer, Judas or Adolf..

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It's unusable in the US because there is a brand of pancake mix, fake maple syrup, and frozen pancakes and waffles called "Aunt Jemima." The issue is that when the brand first started, in the 1880s, when it offered only the pancake mix, a picture of an African-American woman, which was racist and unattractive, was featured on the box. She was depicted as a typical "mammy", and in fact, a little later, between 1910 and 1920, the advertising company that was hired created an entire back story for her which stated that she was a former slave who was locally famous in Mississippi for her pancakes and who then divulged her secret recipe to a flour company which then marketed the secret recipe. None of which was true, of course. The recipe was in fact created by a white man. This advertising campaign persisted through the 1940s and 1950s and was abandoned only in the 1960s. Aunt Jemima, as pictured on the products, continued to look like a slave until the late 1980s. Nowadays, she looks like any African-American woman, the bandanna is gone and she wears pearl earrings. Still, her name is very associated with racism and most African-Americans hate the very idea of Aunt Jemima. Still, it's too valuable a brand name among whites for Quaker Oats to consider abandoning it. Even though many whites are insensitive to what Aunt Jemima represents, her existence still makes the name unusable to them, if only because it's associated with an enslaved mammy. Okay, now that I explained the whole thing anyway, here's the Wiki article on it:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aunt_Jemima

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That's very interesting and sad. Jemima is fairly common in the UK I think. I know a teenage Jemima, and my first association with the name would be Jemima Puddleduck.The name is quite pretty, wouldn't use it personally but I like the meaning and the NN potentials.
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I wonder if Jemima will maintain the negative connotations for much longer? If someone said Aunt Jemima, then I would think of the brand, but Jemima on its own has multiple associations. For someone who doesn't remember the 60s, Jemima is more associated with actresses, the daughter of Job in the Bible, the musical "Cats," and Jemima Puddle-Duck. There is also a funny historical account of a Welsh woman named Jemima who used a pitchfork to round up 12 drunken French soldiers during the War of the First Coalition.
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I didn't know the fire-breathing Welsh dragon lady was a Jemima, thank you for that, but I do remember reading that when she delivered the drunken dozen to the authorities she was asked how she'd managed to do it, and she modestly replied "I surrounded them"!!
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Oh....That's why I love this website. I would never exprct a link like this.Thank you a lot for sharing!
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Jemima is a problematic name in the US because of this brand: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aunt_JemimaI really like Adolf (and its Finnish form Aadolf) and I think Lucifer has a great meaning, but I would never use them in real life because of their bad connotations.

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Hi Remora!!Thanks for the link!I like Lucifer as well. The meaning is beautiful and it is also linked with Venus ("Lucifer", "The Morning Star"). It is a pity that it still has such a negative vibe. Why don't stay with Devil and Satan to mean the demon's king and leave free Lucifer for a coming back? I hope it will happen.
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Definitely Judas.
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Given my love for many German names, I like the name Adolf in it's own right. However, with it's associations, I just don't find it usable.
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Well, the name "Donald" is now taboo, as far as I'm concerned...
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I think it is too! That's ok though, it's a family name and my uncle and cousins have since used it, so I say their branch of the family can have the name. lol!
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That's a good point. Didn't think of that. But I hate Donald anyway.
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