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First, I love the name Martin. I also think Rudolph and Floyd are very useable, but I'm not a big fan of David or Stephen, so you and I likely have different taste in names.

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I think if you did David Martin Stephen Last name it would work.

I love Martin, Martin Stephen would rid yourself of the Steve Martin problem too. Not that I think Stephen Martin Last Name is much of an issue. Now, if Martin were the last name, then I'd definitely say to avoid Stephen.

I don't know anything about Steve Martin. How long is his popularity going to last? Realistically, ten years? More? Less? If he's not likely to last, then there isn't a problem.

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What about Stephen David Martin? Nothing wrong with two middles, and it solves all your problems at a stroke.

Stephen and Martin are both very common names and I don't think the association is too overwhelming. In fact, I don't see why anyone would associate Stephen Martin ______ with Steve Martin (unless perhaps you actually call him Steve, but even then people usually don't say the nickname with the middle name, so honestly I think it's fine).

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Anyway, I think its awesome that you want to honor both fathers! :)

I don't think Rudolph and Floyd are unusable; I like Floyd and Rudolph's not bad either-- they both feel a little more interesting and exciting that Stephen and Martin.

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I guess if you're totally against using their middle names, I'd pick the deceased father's name-- surely the living one will understand wanting to honor the dead, and you can always use the other name on a second son (if you have another).

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You could also consider using two middle names, perhaps burying the "unusable" (they're not) middle names.

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David Martin Rudolph
David Martin Floyd
David Stephen Rudolph
David Stephen Floyd
(I don't know which middle name belongs to which first, so here's all the possibilities).

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I also thought about David Stephen Martin or David Martin Stephen but I don't really like the flow at all

Eh, I don't think Stephen Martin is a huge deal, but if it bothers you would you consider using two middle names? Stephen David Martin or Martin David Stephen would break up the Steve Martin association.

Either scrap the whole idea and exclude everybody equally or use the fathers' middle names, or one middle and one first, or your father's last name as the middle to your husband's father's first or middle name.
Or have a girl.