Patricia
Do you think Patricia will feel ready for revival anytime soon? It's my grandmother's name and I rather like it...
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Sorry but I hope not. Patricia makes me shudder. I've never liked it. And I hate all the nickname options too. It's the name equivalent of nails on a chalkboard to me!
My name is Patricia, it was my grandmother's name as well
I don't think Patricia is up for making a revival just yet. But it's really hard to say: I've noticed heaps of little ones running around with Patricia as a middle name, honoring I assume. It's definitely still in use but not so much as a first name. There were only 421 born last year...
I think one of the larger issues with the decline in popularity is that most people see nicknames as a problem. Pat, Trish, Tish, Tricia, Patty, Patsy, etc. are not the most attractive and they're quite dated. There are lots of other nicknames out there that are much more uncommon and really adorable: Pia, Pippa, Pippi, Trixie, Atti, Paisie / Pacey, Pixie, Pasha, etc.
Then there is the issue of the first generations of Patricia's. They're getting up in age and so the image most people have is of much older women. It has become the name of a grandmother. I know, as a Patricia myself, that when someone sees your name written before they actually meet you, quite a few assume you're an older woman. Which isn't the most fun, especially when you're younger.
I don't think Patricia is up for making a revival just yet. But it's really hard to say: I've noticed heaps of little ones running around with Patricia as a middle name, honoring I assume. It's definitely still in use but not so much as a first name. There were only 421 born last year...
I think one of the larger issues with the decline in popularity is that most people see nicknames as a problem. Pat, Trish, Tish, Tricia, Patty, Patsy, etc. are not the most attractive and they're quite dated. There are lots of other nicknames out there that are much more uncommon and really adorable: Pia, Pippa, Pippi, Trixie, Atti, Paisie / Pacey, Pixie, Pasha, etc.
Then there is the issue of the first generations of Patricia's. They're getting up in age and so the image most people have is of much older women. It has become the name of a grandmother. I know, as a Patricia myself, that when someone sees your name written before they actually meet you, quite a few assume you're an older woman. Which isn't the most fun, especially when you're younger.
I don't like Patty, my sister's nickname, but I do like Trish and Tricia. My sister, in fact, tried in elementary school to change her nickname to Trish, but it just didn't take.
Funny how some nicknames just naturally get shortened in adulthood and some don't. My sister has never gone by Pat. My other sister's name is Pamela, and she was called Pammy in childhood. They were Patty and Pammy. As they reached puberty, Pammy just naturally was shortened to Pam, which is what everyone calls her now, but Patty stayed Patty. Both seem natural to me---Patty is a name which is fine for an adult woman, but Pammy isn't--but I'm not sure why!
Funny how some nicknames just naturally get shortened in adulthood and some don't. My sister has never gone by Pat. My other sister's name is Pamela, and she was called Pammy in childhood. They were Patty and Pammy. As they reached puberty, Pammy just naturally was shortened to Pam, which is what everyone calls her now, but Patty stayed Patty. Both seem natural to me---Patty is a name which is fine for an adult woman, but Pammy isn't--but I'm not sure why!
I have always been called Patricia, with few exceptions. My father and brother both call me Trish. A few friends call me either Pia or Atti. To everyone else, I am Patricia. Always have been, always will be.
My SO likes to tease me and call me Pat-ricia because he knows how adamantly I despise the name Pat. :)
My SO likes to tease me and call me Pat-ricia because he knows how adamantly I despise the name Pat. :)
No, I don't think so. It was still common in the 60s so I think it needs another 40 years or so to make a comeback. Probably even longer as it was still used quite a bit in the 80s.
To be honest I dislike it. I hate the -isha and -eesha sound, though. I can't stand Alicia and Laetitia pronounced with an -isha or -eesha sound either. I like them pronounced as ah-lee-see-ah or ah-liss-ee-ah and leh-tee-see-ah, though. I also can't stand the nicknames Patty, Pat and Patsy. Even worse: Tish, Tisha, Trish and Trisha. Sorry.
If you love it you should still use it. It is definitely usable. And could also be used as a middle name.
To be honest I dislike it. I hate the -isha and -eesha sound, though. I can't stand Alicia and Laetitia pronounced with an -isha or -eesha sound either. I like them pronounced as ah-lee-see-ah or ah-liss-ee-ah and leh-tee-see-ah, though. I also can't stand the nicknames Patty, Pat and Patsy. Even worse: Tish, Tisha, Trish and Trisha. Sorry.
If you love it you should still use it. It is definitely usable. And could also be used as a middle name.
This message was edited 6/17/2012, 9:08 AM
It's my sister's name. I have that funny little feeling towards it that you have towards the name of a family member, kind of like you have a vested interest in it. My sister is fifty years old---though not a grandmother, and very unlikely to become a grandmother any time soon, since she had children late. My sister is always called Patty.
I like the name Patricia---it's soft, flowing, long, elegant. I can see why it was so popular for so long. I know that my sister does not appreciate having such a common name, though.
I don't think it will be ready for a revival any time soon. I don't see that happening, if it happens, for another forty years or so. It needed an even longer rest than it's currently had, because it was popular for a long, long time.
I like the name Patricia---it's soft, flowing, long, elegant. I can see why it was so popular for so long. I know that my sister does not appreciate having such a common name, though.
I don't think it will be ready for a revival any time soon. I don't see that happening, if it happens, for another forty years or so. It needed an even longer rest than it's currently had, because it was popular for a long, long time.
I don't think it will be making a major comeback anytime soon, but I think it's a nice name! I don't think it needs to be making a comeback for you to seriously consider using it either. I'd love to see a little Patricia!