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Re: Tyrone
Sooo much vom in your general direction right nowThe idea that thinking "ghetto" is absolutely the worst thing in the world might be kind of, I dunno, distasteful doesn't seem to have occurred to you.I mean you're not even saying "I'm worried my teer-AWN baby won't get a job because people might think he's ghetto," you're saying "oh it's so lovely and elegant and wonderful when one vowel makes a different sound, because it doesn't connote ghetto people AKA stereotypical black people, and when it does connote such people it's really gross and an abomination to the lovely MMMMMMMM Irish white people name it actually is."

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One thingI'm going to try and figure out how to say this, because I'm terrible at it.Trailer Trash & Ghetto are the same things to me - exactly. I don't really like either term for various reasons but they are the same thing. Blacks and whites are - more or less - two very distinct cultures. There are just different names for them, I think.From what I've seen in the Black community (and I've spent plenty of time around them) Tyrone does have a trashy connotation. My friend who is black would refer to Tyrone as a 'hood rat name.' Keisha / Monique / Tamika are perfectly acceptable to her - but Tyrone, Keyshawna, and LaShanika are not. Just like I tend to shy away from names like Allysin / Braylynn / Emmaleigh.
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Okay but this is still classism, which is the same thing as racism but less visible.
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Point #1 - I wasn't numero uno to call the name Tyrone "ghetto" - that would be Orsino's original response to my post. At which point I thought, "hmm...he/she has a point - maybe this name has a negative connotation associated with it."

To: Akua Topaz - "ghetto" means "black trash" and implies that you are an uneducated, classless idiot. Stop making inferences where there are none. I in no way compared "people who live in the ghetto...to Hitler". What I apparently need to spell out for you is that I would do my best not to saddle an innocent child with a name that has serious negative connotations - be it Cletus, Adolf, or Tyrone. That's gross negligence and stupidity. To: beethoven - I wouldn't say that being called "ghetto" is the 'worst thing in the world', but it is insulting to most people. Surely, you don't live in the United States or even understand what that word means. I am quite shocked that you think that "ghetto" equates to "stereotypical black people". That's sick and probably one of the most racist statements I've ever seen. Being called "ghetto" means being called "trash" and if you think that "stereotypical black people" are trash then you live in a sad, sad world indeed.Any parent with half a brain ought to consider the consequences of giving their child a name that has negative connotations associated with it. To point out those connotations exist is not racist - it is a fact. It is irrelevant whether it is right or wrong, people will judge you based on your name and will judge your child based on his or her name. And yes, I prefer the Irish pronunciation of the name Tyrone to the American pronunciation because they SOUND like 2 different names and I like the SOUND of the "MMMM Irish Accent". That doesn't make me racist. Classism and racism are not the same thing. You're still grasping at straws trying to make a point where there isn't one. You're defensive and a simpleton which together make a pathetic combination. Do me a favor - don't comment on any of my posts and I'll do the same for you. I don't have time to further deal with your "vom" and other nonsense BS.

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so....I guess this means no Tyrone for you?
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LOL - this made my day! Thank you Chloe :)
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