Re: twinnies
in reply to a message by missy O
They're very lovely names.
Twin names shouldn't be matching. The less the better I think, after growing up as one. It's not because it hinders them from growing into their own individual (unless they're like practically the same name) since you grow into an individual yourself, it's not like you grow up with half a mind. It's trying to get other people to see you as an individual that's the problem, matching names just worsens that more than necessary. And it can say your parents didn't really view you as one either. The media has made twins cutesy and inseparable, it's not true at all~ Oh and then you get "Both of your names start with H, how cute!" your entire life as if they were the first person to tell you this.
Twin names shouldn't be matching. The less the better I think, after growing up as one. It's not because it hinders them from growing into their own individual (unless they're like practically the same name) since you grow into an individual yourself, it's not like you grow up with half a mind. It's trying to get other people to see you as an individual that's the problem, matching names just worsens that more than necessary. And it can say your parents didn't really view you as one either. The media has made twins cutesy and inseparable, it's not true at all~ Oh and then you get "Both of your names start with H, how cute!" your entire life as if they were the first person to tell you this.