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Um, aren't you just stating the obvious here? I think the poster seems to understand that everyone's different about it, and so she asks other people what they personally would do and how they personally feel about it for themselves - not whether she should care about their judgment of what she does. A survey, sort of? Not to pick on you here, but I was reading responses to see people's answers to her question too, and this seems totally non sequitur to me.