Wylie wouldn’t be a bad name at all! It has a feminine-edge, and sounds very handsome on a boy. I’ll provide my favorite androgynous (or, ones that *I* find androgynous…) names, and maybe that would help you *and* your spouse?
TaylorCorySkylerKendallShannonMorganArlen (or Arlyn)
AlexisPayton (or
Peyton)
CaseyAshton (or
AshtynSidney (
Sydney could also work, if you want it more feminine)
JayRaySage (or
Saige; I used to know a boy with this spelling)
AveryHaydenCaiden (Or
Kaden and any other spelling)
Devyn (or
Devon,
Deven,
Devin, and
Devan)
KylanDarcyAndyDominiqueJasperKelseyJodyEverettHendrixDaleLayneBlakeAniston
JordanRileyCameronFinleyBlakelyQuinnSheaSkye (or
Sky)
HadleyKylerJadeKaiVivianWynnZaydenZephyrAlexJusticeAdley
AshleyAshby
BaileyZayden
I’ve also met a girl named
Zander, a woman named Shawne, a boy named
Hailey, and a boy named
Kristen (all are cisgender, in case you’re wondering). So, I guess those could also count, as well.
Good luck to you and your spouse on finding a name! I think that
Scout would make a nice middle name! Maybe, in honor of your friend, you can use
Scout for a middle name?