Ashley for a girl feels very dated, but pleasant and soft. I heard it for the first time on the sister of a guy named Sebastian and fell in love with it for a few years - it seemed so exotic.
Cade is boring. At least it looks better than Kade.
masculine list:
https://www.behindthename.com/pnl/191050/124079feminine list:
https://www.behindthename.com/pnl/191050/124080