[Opinions] Re: Terrence (f) a repost of a former response (mild rant...)
in reply to a message by Azula
I'd think it cool for a girl or boy to be Terrence - and s/he can spell the name or use any name version s/he likes.
The following post is more of a re-post from last year.
I am (mildly) intrigued that Aurora is thought feminine—yet that Rory, not related with Aurora--nor unrelated, is perhaps with less specific rigidity, or enforcement, masculine. Can a relationship between the boy & girl genders be synonymous with the relations between formal names and nick-names? Can a boy nicknamed Rory whether his formal is Aurora or Rory be Goddess (God?) of Morning, Sunrise, or dare I say Dawn? Can a boy known as Rory, whatever his formal name may be, share that same essential heritage -- divinity – whether the namesake for his 'known as' name is a lady? We meet people both informally & formally. Must we scrutinize every paper ballot before we assign a meaning or share (inherit or acquire) heritage? As an American I love Martin Luther King - his stance & his achievements, though I am white and (mostly) Irish / German. I love to see folks of other races wear Green on Saint Patty's day. Wait did I just feminize Saint Patrick by calling him Patty? I did not intend that much - really.
Saint Teresa to me is a Hero / Heroine; to me, her achievements far exceed those of any (male) pope; yet she could not be pope due to her gender. May a boy share her name--or must he (needs be) Terence or Terry? Personally, I like the sound of Theresa better than Terry or Terence. Can he be known as Theresa in honor of all the good she did? I've never met a female James, but I do see poster's mention that James grows in popularity for girls. I am (ALMOST) absolutely indifferent to popularity. Will future wise guys (tough guys) named Jimmy / Jimmie be reported to the name police as either girly boys or statistical errors? Can a girl be a wise guy? May a lady (as an adult--perhaps a teacher) say to a child "No more Mr. Nice Guy"?
The following post is more of a re-post from last year.
I am (mildly) intrigued that Aurora is thought feminine—yet that Rory, not related with Aurora--nor unrelated, is perhaps with less specific rigidity, or enforcement, masculine. Can a relationship between the boy & girl genders be synonymous with the relations between formal names and nick-names? Can a boy nicknamed Rory whether his formal is Aurora or Rory be Goddess (God?) of Morning, Sunrise, or dare I say Dawn? Can a boy known as Rory, whatever his formal name may be, share that same essential heritage -- divinity – whether the namesake for his 'known as' name is a lady? We meet people both informally & formally. Must we scrutinize every paper ballot before we assign a meaning or share (inherit or acquire) heritage? As an American I love Martin Luther King - his stance & his achievements, though I am white and (mostly) Irish / German. I love to see folks of other races wear Green on Saint Patty's day. Wait did I just feminize Saint Patrick by calling him Patty? I did not intend that much - really.
Saint Teresa to me is a Hero / Heroine; to me, her achievements far exceed those of any (male) pope; yet she could not be pope due to her gender. May a boy share her name--or must he (needs be) Terence or Terry? Personally, I like the sound of Theresa better than Terry or Terence. Can he be known as Theresa in honor of all the good she did? I've never met a female James, but I do see poster's mention that James grows in popularity for girls. I am (ALMOST) absolutely indifferent to popularity. Will future wise guys (tough guys) named Jimmy / Jimmie be reported to the name police as either girly boys or statistical errors? Can a girl be a wise guy? May a lady (as an adult--perhaps a teacher) say to a child "No more Mr. Nice Guy"?
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It seems you have thoughts about gender.
edit - But, no conclusions.
edit - But, no conclusions.
This message was edited 4/14/2019, 6:40 PM
I think many of us (game geeks or not) have thoughts about gender.
With names my solution is that one should assign any name that he or she likes. If the child truly dislikes it, help him or her change it.
With names my solution is that one should assign any name that he or she likes. If the child truly dislikes it, help him or her change it.
I think many of us (name geeks or not) have thoughts about gender.
Even BtN classifies names with gender - and labors to do so- even if it merely mimics statistical classifications from other entities.
With names my solution is that one should assign any name that he or she likes. If the child truly dislikes it, help him or her change it.
Even BtN classifies names with gender - and labors to do so- even if it merely mimics statistical classifications from other entities.
With names my solution is that one should assign any name that he or she likes. If the child truly dislikes it, help him or her change it.
This message was edited 4/15/2019, 2:19 AM
I think many of us (game geeks or not) have thoughts about gender.
With names my solution is that one should assign any name that he or she likes. If the child truly dislikes it, help him or her change it.
With names my solution is that one should assign any name that he or she likes. If the child truly dislikes it, help him or her change it.
You sort of make sense but I have no idea what the Catholic church has to do with it. The Catholic church is a patriarchal institution and Theresa was just a spokes figure/scam so she does not have any real power in the church. Dismiss that thought. I agree about boys not taking on female names.
See here: What Really Goes On At Mother Teresa's Mission In India? (2001)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wl9arzVuZbA
See here: What Really Goes On At Mother Teresa's Mission In India? (2001)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wl9arzVuZbA
OK I've dismissed the thought that Saint Teresa has "power" in the church. She has passed.
Is there anything else you don't understand?
Is there anything else you don't understand?
This message was edited 4/15/2019, 5:59 PM