Sorry, probably shouldn't have worded it like that on this board. My family and I use "gross cow" as a term for someone who swears a lot (looong story, but it involves a cow we once saw on holidays), so my mother calls my brother and I gross cows when we swear, I probably say this to my husband once a day when he swears around T or other small children. Not a gendered comment (especially since the men in my family cop it most), just a 'in joke'. I forget that I don't actually know people here IRL.