[Opinions] Grey
I'm pregnant with Baby #2, and while the first name is settled on, the middle name is still undecided. It is a boy.
I am leaning toward Grey, which has been a favorite middle name of mine for over 10 years.
What are people's impression of the name? My sister's first thought was 50 Shades of Grey. I have not read the books or watched the movies, and while I hold nothing against them, that is definitely not the impression I was going for. Is that something most people will think of/assume?
Also does Grey vs. Gray make a difference?
Thank you!
I am leaning toward Grey, which has been a favorite middle name of mine for over 10 years.
What are people's impression of the name? My sister's first thought was 50 Shades of Grey. I have not read the books or watched the movies, and while I hold nothing against them, that is definitely not the impression I was going for. Is that something most people will think of/assume?
Also does Grey vs. Gray make a difference?
Thank you!
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I don't like it. I'm not a fan of naming kids after colors.
1. It's a middle name which means plenty of people will never know it. Please yourself before you please the masses.
2. I think of Dorian Gray before I think of Christian Grey, no matter the spelling. (Actually, I didn't think of Christian Grey at all and I'm sure before this child is in school or anything, no one will give a damn or even really remember 50 Shades anymore.)
3. I prefer Grey personally. I think it looks a little more namelike. Maybe because as an American, I see Grey in people's surnames, but Gray is a color.
I like it and I'd use it, especially if I'd loved it for many years.
2. I think of Dorian Gray before I think of Christian Grey, no matter the spelling. (Actually, I didn't think of Christian Grey at all and I'm sure before this child is in school or anything, no one will give a damn or even really remember 50 Shades anymore.)
3. I prefer Grey personally. I think it looks a little more namelike. Maybe because as an American, I see Grey in people's surnames, but Gray is a color.
I like it and I'd use it, especially if I'd loved it for many years.
I think so. I remember a bunch of babies were born with the name after that book came out. I'm not a prude by any means but I don't think its the vibe I would want to give off, either. Whether that vibe be one of a lonely housewife or a BDSM fan. Neither is very flattering. But, I think as a middle name it isn't so bad in that respect.
Having said all that, I do like Grey. I much prefer it over Gray.
Having said all that, I do like Grey. I much prefer it over Gray.
I wouldn't think of 50 Shades...it's a color and common surname so I don't think it's too connected to the book/movie.
When I see Grey/Gray, I just think it's on trend. Grey, for both girls and boys, seems to be the new middle name trend. It makes sense because the sound goes with a lot of names and a lot of celebs have been using it. It's similar in sound to both May/Mae and James but is a little more fresh, I guess.
I think it's handsome enough but it does feel a little generic if it doesn't have meaning to you.
When I see Grey/Gray, I just think it's on trend. Grey, for both girls and boys, seems to be the new middle name trend. It makes sense because the sound goes with a lot of names and a lot of celebs have been using it. It's similar in sound to both May/Mae and James but is a little more fresh, I guess.
I think it's handsome enough but it does feel a little generic if it doesn't have meaning to you.
Probably most people these days will think of 50 Shades unless they know, for instance, that your maiden name was Grey.
I haven't read the book or seen the movie either but that's one of the first things I thought of; the first thing was the color, my least favorite color after brown.
I haven't read the book or seen the movie either but that's one of the first things I thought of; the first thing was the color, my least favorite color after brown.
I think it sounds pretentious, noble-surnamey - like Earl Grey, Lady Jane Grey.
Not a very namey color because it only brings to mind ambiguity and drabness.
It's alright as a MN and I don't think you should worry about the stupid porn. It reminds me of that, but not enough that I'd avoid it if I loved it... if anyone assumed it was referring to that, it would reflect more on them than on you.
Not a very namey color because it only brings to mind ambiguity and drabness.
It's alright as a MN and I don't think you should worry about the stupid porn. It reminds me of that, but not enough that I'd avoid it if I loved it... if anyone assumed it was referring to that, it would reflect more on them than on you.
I prefer Grey, but I see it (regardless of spelling) as more feminine.
As a middle name I can't be too fussed about it. I've always thought it was a pretty dumb name however, it is like the most boring colour.
I would use the spelling that is more common in your country, I'm Canadian with a friend named Gray and it always bugs people because that's not how we spell it!
I would use the spelling that is more common in your country, I'm Canadian with a friend named Gray and it always bugs people because that's not how we spell it!