I think
Eleanor is lovely, but I find
Zelda to be rather ugly. I don't find it at all feminine. Then again, I don't care for any "Z" names - especially female "Z" names.
No, I don't think it'd be confusing if, hypothetically speaking,
Eleanor and
Ella were cousins. They are completely different names to me. And even if they were alike, I wouldn't find it a problem since their relationship would be (close) cousins and not siblings.
I don't even think an in-law's name should be taken into account when naming your child. Personally, I don't think those things should even be considered (re:
Zelda and
Velda).
Close ore not, nothing like that should stop you from using a name you like/love.
As for the combos, I do think
Zelda Ruth flows, but not
Eleanor Ruth. The ending "r" or
Eleanor and the beginning "R" of
Ruth run into each other.

This message was edited 3/30/2006, 3:16 PM