[Opinions] Barbara
after thinking, I'm interested in this name but the way it's pronounced in American English ("Bar-bruh") vs. British English ("Barb-ah-rah") is one of the points that impedes.
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I pronounce the middle syllable but only just: it's a barely audible pause, like with Catherine. I keep coming across 16th-18th century Barbaras and Barbarys in the research I'm doing and I quite like it too, but I really don't like Barbie.
In my experience, British English also drops the middle syllable from Barbara (and from Deborah, and no doubt others) unless the occasion is very formal (like a christening) or highly charged emotionally (Bar-ba-ra! I've told you five times to make your bed and tidy up. Get a move on!).
I like Barbara in the way one likes vintage clothing: interesting, charming even but not for everyday use. Not yet, anyway. Give it time!
I like Barbara in the way one likes vintage clothing: interesting, charming even but not for everyday use. Not yet, anyway. Give it time!
"Not for everyday use" - I cannot agree more - and I prefer this infrequent use to overt commonality or even popularity. The name means "Foreigner / Stranger / Beautiful Stranger"; so the "everyday use" would familiarize the unique distinction requisitely inherent through its essence, which amplifies through the strength of its sonority: hence, like many names we have short-names, nicknames, and pet names for friends and family.
This message was edited 7/21/2016, 5:56 PM
I am a Barbra (given name Barbara) - who legally dropped the "middle a" from the spelling last year to align it with the pronunciation that I prefer; and to further distance it from the "Bar - Bar" root, (as the "Bar - Bar" sound was originally used by intolerants to mock those who could not speak ancient Greek).
I met a lady a few months ago who informed me that her friend had just dropped the "middle a" from her the spelling as well.
I met a lady a few months ago who informed me that her friend had just dropped the "middle a" from her the spelling as well.
I'm from England and I say it Bar-bra (2 syllables).
I don't really like Barbara, it is very old fashioned to me and sounds quite frumpy. Also I dislike all the nicknames - Babs, Barbie, Bar...
I don't really like Barbara, it is very old fashioned to me and sounds quite frumpy. Also I dislike all the nicknames - Babs, Barbie, Bar...
Hi !!!
Here in Italy this name (with Greek origin) is pronounced like the British way but as BAHR-bah-rah.
Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Here in Italy this name (with Greek origin) is pronounced like the British way but as BAHR-bah-rah.
Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
This message was edited 7/19/2016, 10:03 AM
Oh man, I don't like the name anyway but the "Barb-ah-rah" pronunciation really grates.
Double Post - Sorry
This message was edited 7/19/2016, 4:07 PM
I dislike the "Bar - Bah - ra" pronunciation as well; however I enjoy hearing it spoken by folks who speak English as a second language - the "r" is often rolled - and not only by folks who speak romantic languages.