Wow, you poetic descriptions and explanations are rather moving! I'm happy that you are happy. And I find your more colourful names more interesting than your regulars.
I really like
Matilda and think that
Tilly might be about the best little girl nickname there is. Tildy too.
Jethro is way too redneck for me personally.
Three boys nappin', one mama namenerdin'
To peruse my top 100ish names:
http://www.behindthename.com/pnl/82589
"My Inner Birthing Mother Paddles a Canoe" and other non-name musings
found on my blog:
http://jodifriesen.blogspot.ca/2014/07/paddle-power.html