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I really think it depends on the nn. Some are preferable to others. Some longer names are just so lovely they don't need nns. Some nns are rather unattractive or unappealing to some people. For some it's just preference. For the most part, I tend to lean towards being more of a full names person, but there are certain nns. I'm ok w/. Deb's ok if one's in a rush. Debbie I can't stand. Kate is kinda nice. Tired of Katie... esp. on adults. Billi on a girl can be nice as is or as a nn. W/ our current culture's mindset, BJ's a rather unfortunate nn for Billie-Jo and various other combos that lead to that nn. Frankie's actually kinda nice on a girl... and Bobbi and Robbi can be too... Though, I'd have to admit, the majority of y and ie nns, I'm not so much a fan of... esp. when a child hits teen years and older 'cause they can sound too kiddish.
However, if someon prefers to be addressed by his/her nn, I will gladly oblige him/her out of respect for the person's preferences.