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[Opinions] Re: Lily
Well, it's honestly the kinds of parents who utilize this name that give it this feel.
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LOLIf it's the type of parents, how would suggesting an alternative name to them change anything?Personally, I don't mind that Lily's really popular. It's sweet without being too sweet (I think the L's give it a certain awkwardness), and some names have to be more popular than others. Lily's nice. I am glad I have managed to overcome the "images" associated with names when I am considering whether they are good names or not; it enables me to be happy to meet a Lily, Emily, Emma, Victoria, James, Jacob, or William.
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I don't mind that it's common. I love the name Emily. It's just that it's so unsubstantial. It's like she's saying. "Hi! My names LILLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEEE. STEP ON ME! :-D"
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I've seen people from teenage moms to late life moms use this name.
I'm not picking, but just trying to understand.
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Well to me it's a mixture of poor taste, and a want for your child to always sound like a child without considering her place in the adult world.
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I disagreeI actually think that Lily can go both ways, and I can see it on women from a tiny child to a woman in her 90's. I think it's sweet, but "sweet" does not mean "unrefined." It's attractive and I know very few Lilys.
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and I can see it on women from a tiny child to a woman in her 90's.Maybe in the backwoods of West Virginia.
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Hey, watch it.I'm from West Virginia, buster. We're not all rednecks and hillbilles. They're more toward Southwestern WV. (*cough*Calhoun County*cough*)I've only met two Lilys, FYI. One is 9 and one is 60. I don't like it as a full name, but I think Lilith and Lillian are nice, if not names I would use.ETA: I read your other post. Elizabeth nn Lily is nice as well. :)

This message was edited 3/16/2008, 1:19 PM

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LOL. Sorry. I am native Marylander. It's just an expression we use. Meant no offence.
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Yeah, I know. [m]I was born in Maryland and we moved to WV (Eastern Panhandle) when I was four. I live in the more civilized area of the state. The Southwestern part is like a whole different world; it's amazing. They use swinging bridges and they have more unpaved roads than any other place I've seen. It takes forty minutes to get to a store from some places!
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I wouldn't know what goes on there, I've never been. But I live in Los Angeles and I can definitely see it.
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Well, I'm from South Dakota and I've known several people named Lily...although one (who was 100 years old thank you) went by Lilly (with 2 L's).
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So you would prefer Lillian, Lilith or a "fuller" sounding name where Lily would just become the NN?
As a more mature naming choice?

This message was edited 3/16/2008, 8:35 AM

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Well, I'd prefer Elizabeth nn Lily. I don't think Lillian or Lilith are often shortened.
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Fair enough, thanks for clarifying your logic.
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