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[Opinions] Re: Popularity
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I totally agree with you, you made your point very well. I think if I heard a name and it was overdone to my ears then I wouldn't use it.
But if someone really loves a name, they should use it. Dh and I have chosen the name for our first daughter and it's set in stone- we are going to use it no matter what happens by the time we conceive. On another note, it's hard enough to find a name that really hits you between the eyes. When you come to that point, you shouldn't relinquish your favorite/s just because other people like them too.
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I wish I had the same fealty as you two. I'm afraid (and somewhat ashamed) to say that no matter how much I love a name, I'd refuse to use it after it becomes the least bit popular -- I'd like to say I would, but, unless there's a good meaning behind it (if it's a family name, the name of a close friend, etc. Maybe I just haven't found a name that I really like yet. . .
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But...You'd have no control over if the name you've chosen will become popular in the future. How would you feel then? What if, by the time your child goes to school, there will be other children with the same name as your child? Would you still feel sick about it?
-Lissa Hannah-
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If I had already named my child, and the name became popular after my baby was born, I would only be put off if a close friend or family member named their child by the same name. I'm not really sure why, I just know that after Gabe was born one of my best friends decided that she adored the name Gabriel, pronounced the same way, and it gave me a twitch every time she brought it up.
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