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Jackie is suitable on a man like Jackie Chan, who is much too masculine to be teased about having a woman's name. Perhaps you are like him. I don't know anyone who would really tease a guy named Jackie, though. People might just be afraid you would be teased, when it won't actually happen. Jackie just seems a little bit affected on a guy -- too "friendly" -- I think. Jack is more natural.

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Jian Cao looks like it could very comfortably morph into either Jack, or John Kyle. Either of those names is in style, and neither has any bad connotations that I know of. Some students I work with, who are from China, have taken similar sounding English-language names - so that they will know when they are being addressed (because of the similar sound to their Chinese name), yet non-Chinese speakers won't be humiliated by inability to say the Chinese names correctly. I don't know how annoying it might be to have someone call you by a name that's only "close" to your real name - but I certainly am thankful that these Chinese students have given me a way to address them that is comfortable for me! If I went to China I would try to get a Chinese name.

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